There are people who have been in a dating rut for what seems like forever. I’ve spent my rut refusing exes, recycling past loves and turning guy friends into boyfriends.
Whenever I am in a dating rut, I call up my actor friend and have him come give me the dick.
This dude is painfully slow but very, very nice. Also, he is the only guy I’ve ever met who has magnums and needs them.
I like to revel in nostalgia. Yes, I’m currently dating my ex-turned-not-ex that is an unfortunate byproduct of this approach, but when I’m feeling down, I skip to a year ago on Facebook and look at all the love I was getting and remember, yes simba, all that can be mine again. I’m making the active decision to not date.
Whenever I want to get out of that, I try to become more perceptive of the men who already surround me.I usually find myself reaching out to more than a few exes, ex is a loose term here and usually means an old hookup or even just a random guy who would ask me on dates all the time. As depressing as those statistics may be, it’s just proof that there might not be someone out there for everyone.
The best thing you can do is focus on growing yourself and becoming happy on your own which will also make you more attractive to potential partners. Sometimes what you miss most in a relationship is someone caring about your day.