{"id":3663,"count":1,"description":"<h2><img class=\"size-medium wp-image-7942 aligncenter lazyloaded\" src=\"https:\/\/www.joanncohen.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/08\/tall.man_-200x300.jpg\" alt=\"Why Women Want Confident Men\" width=\"200\" height=\"300\" data-src=\"https:\/\/www.joanncohen.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/08\/tall.man_-200x300.jpg\" \/><\/h2>\r\n<h2><\/h2>\r\n<h2>Man\u2019s confidence in dating women<\/h2>\r\n<h2>Why Women Want Confident Men<\/h2>\r\nAs a Dating coach and Phoenix Matchmaker, I\u2019ve talked to hundreds of women about man\u2019s confidence in dating women. The one trait that always comes up is confidence. Many men ask, \u201cWhat about being nice?\u201d Yes, women like nice guys. But being the nice guy is often code for being shy, submissive, and a pushover. These are the last traits women want in a man.\r\n\r\nNothing is more attractive than a man who knows who he is and what he wants. Women want to feel safe and cared for. They want a partner who they can depend on.\r\n\r\nThe bottom line is this: women want confident men.\r\n\r\nBefore diving into the reasons why, let\u2019s look at what confidence is and what it isn\u2019t. There are many misconceptions surrounding the definition of confidence.\r\n<h4><strong>What Confidence Is Not<\/strong><\/h4>\r\nConfidence is not arrogance, bravado, or a large ego. Think of the Wannabe Pickup Artist. These men study all types of manipulative tactics and techniques to \u201cneg\u201d women. But this behavior only serves to cover up insecurity. Women don\u2019t want a man who\u2019s putting on a show of false bravado. They\u2019re looking for the real deal.\r\n<h4><strong>What Confidence Is<\/strong><\/h4>\r\nTrue confidence is self-assurance. Confident men don\u2019t feel a need to try too hard. They aren\u2019t out to prove anything \u2013 to themselves or anyone else. They are secure in who they are, exuding an attitude of \u201cI can handle this.\u201d\r\n\r\nThe more confidence you have, the better relationships you will have. Psychologist\u00a0<a href=\"https:\/\/www.psychologytoday.com\/us\/blog\/shyness-is-nice\/201809\/why-self-confidence-is-more-important-you-think#:~:text=Confidence%20gives%20you%20the%20skills,to%20handle%20setbacks%20and%20failure.&amp;text=As%20you%20keep%20pushing%20yourself,will%20start%20to%20take%20root.\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">Barbara Markway, Ph.D.<\/a>\u00a0explains that confidence equals less focus on yourself. \u201cWe\u2019ve all been guilty of walking into a room and thinking, \u2018They\u2019re all looking at me. They all think that every word I say is stupid.\u2019 When you get out of your own head, you\u2019ll be able to engage with others,\u201d she says.\r\n\r\nWhy is this attitude of confidence so important to women? 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